I've had to remind myself so many times, over the years, that it's best to take things one step at a time.
...That I only have two hands.
...That I actually get more done when I relax.
And yet... it's still so hard to do.
I still need to keep reminding myself, over and over again.
Because when I don't remind myself, I overdo it.
- I put pressure on myself.
- I over-work.
- I blame myself for every little mistake and perceived shortcoming.
Aspiration isn't bad. Wanting to reach for the stars - that's beautiful.
But I always seem to forget that the stars are easier, when I feel good. When I'm well-rested, mentally somewhat OK, well-fed, hydrated, etc...
- then I can just reach up, and pluck those stars from the sky.
One by one.
Easy as that.
So, this isn't a New Year's Resolution - I don't do that. Too much arbitrary, too much pressure, too little realism.
But it is a reminder to myself, yet again, that things go better when I put self-care at the top of my to-do list, and take things slow and steady.
So - how about you?
Are you prioritising self-care?
Talk to me!
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Cee I really needed this. I think I put pressure on myself to please people, to do things I'm not comfortable doing because they want to. Self-care is about saying no sometimes!
ReplyDeleteGlad to be of help! :) Gotta do what's right for you, Em! (She said, hoping she'll take her own advice for once! Lol.)
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